Kinky Sex Tips

As a sexually uninhibited person, you have tried it all. You have even sought out and mastered 101 Tantric positions and had a threesome or two. Now, somewhat jaded, you are ready to enter into the realm of extreme kinky sex techniques.

Well, the basic principles behind great kinky sex involve entering a realm that interests you and exploring it with a willing partner. For example, if the idea of tying your lover to the bed and ravishing their body excites you, then the BDSM and Fetish societies may be appealing.

In fact, for people interested in extreme kinky sex techniques, BDSM and Fetish groups have much to offer.

Note: While the Dom/Sub or Master/slave relationships exist in both the BDSM and Fetish societies (Fetish is a subculture of BDSM), it is more prevalent in BDSM.

Be sure to distinguish what each group does and where you may fit in. Once you make this all important determination, you will be bale to get on with the business of having great kinky sex.

Kinky Sex Tip #1: Explore Bondage and Domination:

Like being tied up or subduing your partner? Do you enjoy using your intellect to bring a willing captive to surrender? Bondage and domination is for you.

In BD, kinky sex techniques often involve ropes and specialized tying rituals that place your lover in the most provocative and helpless positions.

Unable to move, a BD Master can have their way with their adoring captive.

The domination aspect is primarily mental – for instance, you may tie your partner to a chair, turn off the lights but not tell them where you are. In this manner, you can leave them wondering if and when you will pounce. Such a tantalizing and kinky sex techniques will have your lover panting and wet before you even enter them.

In other words, great kinky sex can be had by screwing with the mind of your lover prior to coitus.

The various rope tying techniques can be pretty intricate and is best taught by a Dom/Domme who has done this type of thing for a number of years.

Kinky Sex Tip #2: Explore Sado–Masochism:

As the name implies, Sado–masochism is a kinky sex ritual that involves a sexual sadist and a sexual masochist. This is also what people typically think of when they think of “Fetish”, although this is in error.

A practicing couple is usually called a Top/bottom or Master/slave. Masters and Mistresses often carry floggers or handcuffs when dressed for play and slaves generally wear collars to signify being “owned”.

Floggers, whips, racks, paddles, electro sex toys and Saint Andrews crosses (A giant wooden “X” like structure for tying and subduing submissive) are often used during the extreme kinky sex techniques that surround Sado–masochism. Please remember: These acts are always consensual. Under no circumstance is a pet or submissive supposed to be harmed against their will. Most times, the Master and pet have sat down and mapped out “a scene.” which can involve sensual torture or flogging sessions. During this time they may devise “safe words” which will be used to let their Master know how much is too much without breaking the scene. I once knew a Dom whose “stop” safe word was mercy, but most use the red, yellow or green system.

Flogging and racking are the most popular SM kinky sex techniques, but a practiced hand is necessary to ensure safety. As with anything, it is best to learn from a pro before getting started.

Kinky Sex Tip #3: Explore Fetish

people who have a particular sexual fixation fall under the caption of a Fetishist. Unlike BDSM enthusiast, who may get into a variety of play, people in this society generally like to get off in a very specific way.

24/7 Swingers and those who have a sexual fixation with hands, feet, stockings, golden showers (urine play) or scatological acts (smearing or eating of feces) are all considered fetishist.

In regard to extreme kinky sex techniques, there is no end to possibilities here. The only boundary would be your imagination (and your likes or dislikes). Try several different things. Put on a pair of ladies underwear or cross dress if you are a guy – request a golden shower if it enters your mind…

There is no limit to what you can gravitate towards when it comes to kinky sex techniques.

Extreme kinky sex techniques start with defining your own tastes. Once you are able to pinpoint them, find a local society that shares your ideas. These local clubs will have information on how to engage in extreme kinky sex techniques in a safe, sane and consensual manner. Knowing what to do and what not to do will help you have great kinky sex, endowing you with the tools necessary to continue on your path of sexual discovery.